"Sometimes I think we waste our words and we waste our moments, and we don't take the time to say the things that are in our hearts when we have the chance." Jessica Helena (Jessie Ella). It's probably best you don't know me.

benedict doing this thing (◉‿◉✿)

(the other thing)

The concern for overly exposed young bodies may be well-intentioned. With society fetishizing girls at younger and younger ages, girls are instructed to self-objectify and see themselves as sexual objects, something to be looked at. A laundry list of problems can come from obsessing over one’s appearance: eating disorders, depression, low self-worth. Who wouldn’t want to spare her daughter from these struggles?

But these dress codes fall short of being legitimately helpful. What we fail to consider when enforcing restrictions on skirt-length and the tightness of pants is the girls themselves—not just their clothes, but their thoughts, emotions, budding sexuality and self-image.

Instead, these restrictions are executed with distracted boys in mind, casting girls as inherent sexual threats needing to be tamed. Dress restrictions in schools contribute to the very problem they aim to solve: the objectification of young girls. When you tell a girl what to wear (or force her to cover up with an oversized T-shirt), you control her body. When you control a girl’s body—even if it is ostensibly for her “own good”—you take away her agency. You tell her that her body is not her own.

When you deem a girl’s dress “inappropriate,” you’re also telling her, “Because your body may distract boys, your body is inappropriate. Cover it up.” You recontextualize her body; she now exists through the male gaze.

(Source: uhlahey)

"While some of you may recognize me from my day job, I am in fact also a musician of sorts." [x]

(Source: kayytx)

morianity:

One more miracle Sherlock, for me. 


Oh my god I was streaming with tears. :’(

morianity:

One more miracle Sherlock, for me. 

Oh my god I was streaming with tears. :’(

(Source: thorinshielding)

slayboybunny:

dont ask me for relationship advice because i will always just tell you to break up w/ them and throw their shit in a dumpster because i do not understand the concept of allowing anyone to treat you poorly this is a zero tolerance zone 

kili-fili-and-frilly:

Movies that constantly go back and forth between being too loud and too quiet

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I want to wake up to you kissing me, in the middle of the night.

—Unknown (via stevenbong)

(Source: secretcave)